I yelled at a client this week. I mean really yelled. Here’s the paraphrased version of what I said: “When are you going to finally stop focusing on the irrelevant aspect of your life that keeps you locked into fear and step into recognizing that your life is abundant, prosperous and perfect?!” This was at a very loud pitch. I think I may have even stood up from the couch to drive the point home.
Now, in case you’re thinking, “Gee, I’m never going to book a private session with this guy,” keep in mind a few things. She was smiling from ear to ear while I did this. She was “getting it” because it was done in the spirit of Love. Additionally, the session helped her come to an epiphany and she left expressing her gratitude (thank you, PM).
When she left, I had the opportunity to ask myself the very same question with regard to my own life right now. I am moved to write this article today because everywhere I turn (including when I turn within) I am seeing how profoundly people are struggling to come home to the heart. And since this is exactly what is up astrologically over the next few months, I decided to begin writing about this now in order to help you all (and myself) navigate this territory with as much grace and ease as possible.
Mars is moving forward over the degrees he recently retrograded over. There is finally some movement in areas where there was none. An integration has completed itself. But really, it has just been a preparation for what is to come. Think of what we’ve just come out of as a clearing out of karmic plaque; and truly, didn’t it feel like that? It was a bit invasive and painful. Hopefully you allowed the cleansing to go as deeply as you could.
In case you thought the process was over, the best is yet to come. Venus has already begun her retrograde cycle. And though she is not moving backward yet, she has started to cover the territory that she will revisit again in the upcoming months.
On the mundane level, Venus rules love and money. Love is obvious, but the money part sometimes leaves people perplexed. Think of it this way: The Masculine Principle states that if you have something I want, I can just take it from you and if I’m stronger than you I get to keep it. The Feminine Principle steps in and says, “Wait a minute, buster. You want this? You can have it, but you will have to exchange something for it.” Hence, we see the birth of money. Money is a profoundly feminine principle vibration.
From a more elevated perspective, the frequency of Venus represents our capacity to live in our heart center. When Venus goes on an inward journey, what occurs is an opportunity to experience a deeper integration of dropping from our head to our heart. As the energy of our world continues to heighten in intensity, the need to be facile with this process has never been more of an imperative.
The placement of this cosmic event is no accident either. Venus is in the sign of Gemini, the twins. And while we can be grateful for those two archetypal characters for creating communication, they also hold sway over the realm of duality and separation. The good news there is that where the wounding is, the healing is. Where duality and separation has been created is exactly where healing duality and separation will occur.
One of the reasons for my barely containable excitement about this is that there is going to be a rare phenomenon smack dab in the middle of this process. Venus is going to eclipse the Sun in early June. An eclipse is when a body passes between the Earth and the Sun, creating a break in the flow of light. When that happens, there is an opportunity to actually change your consciousness.
Because Venus rules love, we are approaching an extraordinary moment in time where we can deliberately alter the way we experience love and intimacy. This will generate a profound healing of the ways in which we feel wounded, separate, unworthy and afraid. What’s more, the bi-yearly Lunar and Solar eclipses are happening around the same time, making the middle of May through early June one of the most potent moments we have seen in this lifetime to heal our hearts and shift our consciousness with regard to Love.
The first event is Venus turning retrograde on May 14th. Then comes the Solar eclipse on May 20th. June 4th marks the Lunar eclipse with the Venetian eclipse following close behind two days later. I am not going to interpret any of these events here. That would be way too much information to digest all at once. I will write more about this in the weeks to come so you are fully apprised of what is going on and how to take advantage of each event.
I always like to present an assignment especially designed for the moment at hand. And as this is a preparatory time, then the assignment is related to being prepared. If the intention is to deepen your capacity to love, then it would be beneficial to see just where you are in that arena. And since all love starts (and ends) with self-love, the best way to get the lay of the land with that is mirror work.
Take a quiet moment and look into a mirror. Place your right hand over your heart. Look into your own eyes and tell yourself “I love you.” Do this and see what happens. If I asked you to do this for a full minute, could you?
The idea isn’t necessarily to do it for a minute, or for any particular amount of time for that matter. The goal is to be able to do it without the need to break contact, turn away, giggle, or anything that interrupts the connection. Doing this on a regular basis over time can yield extraordinary results. My intention for suggesting it here, however, is mostly as a barometer. Your comfort level with this exercise will inform you just how well or how challenged you are with regard to self-love.
You will want to know this about yourself in order to be open to the process of heart-opening that has in fact already begun. The three week period I outlined above has the capacity to change everything. The more you know about where you’re at as we move toward that opportunity, the greater your ability to radically alter the way your life offers you love. More accurately, it is about how good you are at receiving it.
I continue to offer my discounted rate for sessions; if you desire assistance in your journey right now, drop me a line and we can set up an appointment for the incredibly low fee of only $53, more than 2/3rds off my usual rate.